Children in Pakistan are coming online younger than ever, often on a shared family phone and
frequently before anyone has spoken to them about what to do when a stranger messages, when a
group chat turns hostile, or when someone asks for a photo. Digital safety is now inseparable
from child protection, which is why it sits inside our
Life-Skills Based Education curriculum
alongside safe touch, child rights and mental health.
Two of the platforms children use most, WhatsApp and Instagram,
now provide dedicated account types for younger users. These are not add-on apps to install:
they are built into the platforms themselves, and they change the defaults so that the safest
setting is the one already switched on. This page explains what each account type does, what a
parent or guardian controls, and what it deliberately does not let you see.
Parents told WhatsApp they wanted a safe, trusted way for the whole family to communicate, including its younger members. Built with input from families and experts, parent-managed accounts are a version of WhatsApp tailored for pre-teens under 13 and centred on messaging and calling.
Four principles shape the entire experience.
Managed accounts can only message with their phone contacts by default, and every setting starts on its most restrictive option, rather than waiting for a parent to find and tighten it.
A parent or guardian is required to create and actively manage the account. By default they review and approve message requests from non-contacts, approve group invites and manage privacy settings, all gated by a PIN only they know.
Managed accounts use basic messaging and calling in 1:1 chats and groups. Features such as View Once, Meta AI, Channels and Status are not available at all.
All personal conversations stay private and protected with end-to-end encryption, meaning no one, not even WhatsApp, can see or hear them.
Once parent-managed accounts are available in your region, this is what setting one up looks like.
Built-in protection for teens, peace of mind for parents. Teen Accounts limit who can contact a teenager and what they see. Teens are placed into them automatically, and those under 16 need a parent's permission to make any of these settings less strict.
Eight settings a parent would otherwise have to find and switch on themselves.
Teen Accounts are inspired by 13+ content ratings. Teens under 18 need a parent's permission to make this less strict, and a Limited Content option exists for parents who want tighter control still.
Teens have to accept new followers, and anyone who does not follow them cannot see their content or interact with them.
Teen Accounts default to the strictest messaging settings, so a teen can only be messaged by people they follow or are already connected to.
Teens can only be tagged or mentioned by people they follow. The most restrictive version of the anti-bullying feature Hidden Words is switched on automatically, filtering offensive words and phrases out of comments and message requests.
After 60 minutes of use in a day, teens get a notification telling them to leave the app.
Between 10 PM and 7 AM, sleep mode mutes notifications overnight and sends auto-replies to direct messages.
Teens are automatically restricted from using the Instagram Live feature.
Teens are automatically placed into nudity protection, which blurs suspected nude images in direct messages and warns teens about the risks of sending them.
Different platforms, different ages, and a genuinely different balance between parent control and child privacy.
| WhatsApp Parent-Managed Account | Instagram Teen Account | |
|---|---|---|
| Who it is for | Pre-teens under 13 | Teens under 18, with extra restrictions under 16 |
| Who sets it up | A parent or guardian must create it, verifying they are 18+ with a selfie check | Teens are placed into it automatically by Instagram |
| Who can make contact | Saved phone contacts only. Everyone else lands in a parent-approved "Requests" folder | People the teen follows or is already connected to |
| Groups & audience | The parent approves every group invite and is told if a group grows substantially | Account is private, so the teen approves each new follower |
| Features available | Messaging and calling only. No View Once, Meta AI, Channels or Status | Full app, minus Live, with content filtered to 13+ ratings and nudity protection on |
| Screen time | Not a built-in feature of the account type | 60-minute daily reminder, plus sleep mode from 10 PM to 7 AM |
| Changing the settings | Gated behind a parent PIN entered on the child's device | Under-16s need a parent's permission to loosen any setting |
| Can a parent read messages? | No. Conversations stay end-to-end encrypted and controls do not expose message content | No. Supervision surfaces settings and activity, not private message content |
Both account types are designed to start a conversation between a parent and a child, not to replace one. Our work in classrooms points to the same conclusion.
A parent PIN a child knows is not a control. Set it privately and change it if it is shared, including with older siblings.
A notification that your child blocked or reported someone is the moment to ask what happened, calmly, so they keep telling you next time.
Group size and shared contacts are given to you for a reason. A large group of strangers is worth a question before you approve it.
Neither account type shows you your child's messages. Telling them that plainly builds the trust that makes them come to you when something goes wrong.
A setting that fits a ten-year-old will not fit a fifteen-year-old. Loosen deliberately and together, rather than under pressure.
Digital safety is taught, not configured. It is one of the topics in our LSBE curriculum for exactly that reason.
Availability differs by region, so always check the platform's own pages for what is live where you are.
Overview, setup guidance and videos for parents and pre-teens.
whatsapp.com/security/parent-managed-accountsWhat Teen Accounts include and how to set up supervision with your teen.
about.instagram.com/community/parentsQuestions about digital safety, or want this session for your school or community?
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